Rejection in Relationships

Often, we find ourselves feeling rejected by others, whether real or perceived, and contend with an inner voice which emphasizes a need for complete acceptance by others.  We all wish to be admired, agreed with, accepted.  It can be difficult when our thoughts or...

Motivation Hack: Task Initiation

Task initiation is something that most people have struggled with at some point in their lives. The barriers to task initiation may vary by person and circumstances, but the end result is that it can be difficult to start a task. Frequently this may be assumed to be a...

New Year, New Me!

Now that 2022 has ended, it is time to make some changes in my life. I plan to eat healthier, lose weight and spend more time reading instead of watching television. In order for these changes to take place, I need to stay motivated and think about the benefits. I do...

Check Your Algorithm

Human beings are made up of many layers of energy, literally. Have you ever left a party or a situation feeling drained or flat? How we interact and with others and if we are truly functioning from a place of an alignment within ourselves can determine how our energy...

A Brief Look at the Brain Affected by Trauma

  Research has unveiled the brain changes and functions that occur when a person experiences the longer-term effects of trauma. Trauma is experienced when the flight or fight reaction is prolonged as the result of a very disturbing or scary occurrence such as a...

Fixed Versus Growth Mindset

There are two main beliefs about intelligence, abilities, and resilience: growth and fixed. A fixed mindset is a belief that intelligence and talent are fixed and innate. You are either born with it or not. People are viewed as competition rather than inspiration....

Grounding Techniques

During times of stress and distress, it is not uncommon for our thoughts to focus either on replaying past events, or reviewing future possibilities. With our mind in the past or on the future, the level of distress we are experiencing can increase and build. During...