Premarital Couples Therapy

Premarital couples therapy can be a vital part of marital health and satisfaction, but often times is underutilized. There is a common misconception and stigma associated with couples therapy that the relationship needs to be in distress in order to warrant couples...

The Power in Surrender

  The Power in Surrender For many of us control is a common theme in our lives, whether we recognize it or not.  Life becomes this juggling act of tasks, people, feelings and thoughts as we strive to exert control in various ways in our lives.  For some, this...

Childhood Trauma

    When talking about trauma or PTSD it is easy to conjure up an image of a soldier returning from war, but did you know that childhood trauma is one of the biggest epidemics facing Americans today?   Statistics from the Substance Abuse and Mental...

Deep Sighing

Deep Sighing When stressed, people are often told to breathe deeply. When I have suggested this to my clients, they often say to me that they do it and it doesn’t work. Maybe it isn’t the magic pill we are all still looking for (including myself), but a solid...

When Actions Speak

  When Actions Speak   It is not uncommon to consider our actions with respect to others.  Sometimes this looks like a willingness to do for others, to go above and beyond for the sake of a relationship.  Sometimes this means much thought and effort put into...

How to Start a Difficult Task

HOW TO START A DIFFICULT TASK   When you have difficulty starting a task, large or small, follow these steps: 1. Give yourself 5 minutes to start working on the task. Set a timer on your phone (or an alarm clock) for 5 minutes.  You will allow yourself 5 minutes...