Overcoming Negative Thoughts: You’re Closer Than You Think

“I don’t want to have any more bad thoughts”This is a statement to which most people can relate, and it’s the kind of statement many people make in therapy.  We work very hard to identify the thoughts that make us feel sad, angry, jealous, frustrated, and afraid,...

Anxiety Giving You the Blues?

As we know anxiety can be burdensome and quite draining. The symptoms often leave you feeling overwhelmed and powerless, which has you believing that there is no relief from its control. Well guess what? There is relief and a way to gain control of your life. The...

Achieving Happiness to Fight Stress III

Studies on positive mood show a number of relevant findings:*Men who scored in the top third range of optimism had 50% less heart attacks than men who scored in the bottom third*2 or more traumatic events raised the risk of breast cancer by 62%*Optimism in women...

Life Related Stress

It seems that just when our life circumstances start flowing smoothly, something happens to interrupt that flow and causes major stress in our lives. From minor obstacles like car repairs or mild illness to major struggles like the loss of a job, serious illness of a...

Experiencing Spring

It’s Spring! Well, at least the calendar says so. Spring is the season of new life; new beginnings. It’s nature refreshing and renewing itself. Many of us do our annual spring cleaning of our house. We sort out the closets, wash windows and walls, and clean out things...

Creating Happiness to Decrease Stress II

Happiness can be described in many ways – pleasant emotions of contentment or joy, feeling positive about an outcome (happy about a good grade), or even absence from pain or boredom. A good general description of happiness is overall life satisfaction. Some...

The Ups and Downs of Coupledom

Every couple has their ups and downs, their successes and failures, their joys and sorrows. The good times can be exciting and even elating as we face joys together with a partner. Marriage, the birth of a child, new jobs, new homes, family vacations, and even just...